Family photos are a beautiful way to capture memories, but let’s be honest—getting kids to cooperate for a photo session can feel like an Olympic event! As a Denver family photographer, I know that a little preparation goes a long way in making your session stress-free and fun. Here’s how to set your little ones (and yourself!) up for success.

1. Schedule Your Session at the Right Time
Timing is everything when it comes to kids! For outdoor family sessions, I recommend scheduling during golden hour—the hour before sunset—for dreamy, soft lighting. However, if your child is happiest in the morning, we can adjust to match their best time of day. The key is choosing a time when they’re well-rested and fed so they’re in their best mood.
2. Dress Them in Comfortable, Photo-Friendly Outfits
Kids love to move, so choose outfits that allow them to play, run, and snuggle. Some tips for picking the perfect outfits:
- Avoid itchy fabrics or tight clothing that might make them fidgety.
- Choose coordinating colors rather than matching outfits.
- Keep layers simple—jackets and accessories can be cute, but too many can overwhelm little ones.
- Skip the big logos & neon colors—they can distract from your beautiful family moments!
- Stores like H&M, Zara or Quince have great options that won’t break the bank.

3. Talk About the Session in a Fun Way
Make the session sound like an exciting adventure rather than a formal photoshoot. Instead of saying, “You have to smile for the camera,” try:
“We’re going to play games and take pictures together!”
“We’re going on a little family outing where we can run, hug, and have fun!”
This helps take the pressure off and makes it something they look forward to.
4. Bring Snacks & Small Rewards
A little bribery never hurts! Pack a few mess-free snacks (like crackers or fruit snacks) to keep energy levels up. Small treats or a fun reward after the session (like ice cream or a trip to the playground) can also help encourage cooperation.

5. Let Kids Be Kids!
The best family photos happen when children are relaxed and free to be themselves. Instead of forcing stiff poses, I encourage natural moments—whether that’s a game of ring-around-the-rosy, giggling in dad’s arms, or exploring nature together. When kids feel comfortable, we capture those genuine smiles and sweet interactions.
6. Don’t Stress – I’ve Got This!
As a Denver family photographer, I’ve worked with kids of all ages, and I know how to keep sessions light and fun. If your child is feeling shy or needs a break, that’s totally okay! The goal is to create a relaxed, joyful experience where everyone leaves happy.
Ready to Book Your Family Photo Session?
If you’re looking for a Denver family photographer who knows how to capture your family’s love and personality, I’d love to work with you! Contact me today to book your session and let’s create beautiful memories together.
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